He did all of that himself at twenty, around thirty-one hours a week at a tyre centre, and he never once complained about it to me.

I asked him why, in the autumn of 2016, in the least graceful way possible, which is to say I asked him whether he was doing it to hurt his father.

And Julian said no.

And then he said: “I’m doing it because Grandma Nora had four laundromats and Dad had a suite number, and I know which one of those is real.”

He was twenty when he said that.