The second is that she started taking weddings.

She had not done weddings in nine years.

She had got out of them deliberately in 2016 because corporate work pays on time and does not cry.

She took a wedding in the June because she needed the money, and then four more, and by the following spring it was a third of her book and now it is about half, and she is, by every account I have heard, extraordinarily good at it in a way she was not good at it in 2015.

I asked her what changed.

And she said: “I stopped selling them the day.