My body went and got that.

It went and got it before anybody consulted me.

So what I did, in the third row, on the bride’s side, with my hands shaking badly enough that Dolores asked me twice if I was all right, was take out my phone and photograph the ceremony.

Everybody was photographing the ceremony.

It is the one event in American life where a woman holding up a telephone is invisible.

I took nineteen photographs and two videos.