She had worked hard after my father died.

She had sat up with us when we were sick and given us a stable home.

The email ended with one line: After all I’ve done, I deserve to be looked after.

I replied the next morning.

You do deserve care and respect.

That does not give you authority over Mariana’s money, property, choices, or dignity.

We can discuss appropriate support when you are ready to acknowledge what happened.

I read the message twice before sending it.