Sometimes people ask whether I forgave Dad and Tiffany.

I never know how to give them the neat answer they want.

Dad and I talk occasionally.

He continues the work he began after the case, and I don’t ignore signs that he is slipping into old habits.

Tiffany and I meet for coffee every few months.

I know parts of her story now that I didn’t know before, but I’m careful with the trust I give her.

Neither relationship has returned to what it was.