Maya would insist I sit in a particular chair because that was where her stuffed rabbit liked visitors to sit.

Other days they barely looked at me, tired from daycare or distracted by snacks.

I stopped evaluating every visit for proof that I mattered.

Showing up mattered even when nothing memorable happened.

PART 12: A DIFFERENT KIND OF PROMISE

One winter afternoon Savannah called while I was reviewing papers at the Minneapolis office.

“Caleb has a fever,” she said.

“Lucas is on call and I have to pick Maya up.