It took Dr.

Raghunathan asking me a direct question for me to notice that I looked at my rear-view mirror perhaps three times a minute, and that I was not looking at the road behind me.

I was checking that she was sitting up.

That is what a year of it was.

A man driving through Connecticut in the ordinary daylight, glancing every twenty seconds at a nine-year-old in a booster seat, confirming.

I do not do that anymore.