“Theo.

I’m going to ask you a question and I want a straight answer.

Are you about to go into that building?”

And I said, “Yes.”

And Ruthanne Pyle said: “Then here is what you are going to do, and I want you to repeat it back to me.

“You are going to walk in through the front door.

You are not going to force anything.

You are going to pick your daughter up and you are going to leave, and you are not going to say one word to any adult in that room beyond what is required to get out with her.