That is the whole case and it is already on your phone.”

I said, “And if he tries to stop me?”

“He won’t.

He’s sixty-eight and he has more to lose in that room than anybody in it.

But if anyone puts a hand on you or on her, you do not respond in any way at all.

You leave the building and you call 911 from the parking lot and you stay on the line.”

Then she said the thing that I have quoted to about four people since, always with attribution.