Somebody on that list is usually within twenty minutes.

That is the whole thing.

We have done it a hundred and ninety-four times in two years and I have done fifty-one of them, mostly at lunchtime, walking in from a car park in work clothes with a sandwich in my bag.

There are rules, which I wrote and which Teresa cut down from nine to four.

We do not bring anything.

No flowers, no confetti, no gift.