It is in the state’s vital records for the next hundred years and it is searchable and it will outlast every person reading this.

The honest part — the part I have to include because otherwise I am doing to you what he did to me — is what the grave looks like.

It varies by county.

In some, there is a marker with a name on it.

In others there is a section of a cemetery with a number, and a register held by the county, and no stone.

That is the real difference and it is not nothing.