They Arrived to Buy an $8 Million Mansion on My Money — They Didn’t Know Whose Name Was Really on the Accounts
People do not gather around the strong one to help; they gather around the strong one to rest.
And they do it without malice, mostly, without even noticing they are doing it, because your strength makes it so easy, because you never seem to strain, because you always find a way.
Every time I solved one of Christopher’s crises without visible effort, I was not earning his gratitude.
I was quietly teaching him that his crises were not really crises at all, that there would always be a solution, that the solution required nothing of him because it required so little visible effort from me.
My competence was not protecting me.