And somehow, in my sister’s telling, twelve years of quiet discipline and sacrifice had become snobbish arrogance.

“I never once asked you to admire what I do,” I said, looking her in the eye.

“I only expected you to respect my home, and the grief I am living through.” “Your grief has taken over this whole house for months!” she spat.

“No,” I said.

“My grief just made it inconvenient for you to manipulate me and take whatever you wanted.” And the truth of it left her, for once, with nothing to say.

Chapter 13 — The Boundary