Not: this goes here now.

Not: you barely use this cabinet anyway.

But a genuine question, waiting on a genuine answer, offered by a woman who had finally understood that this was my kitchen, and my home, and my life, and that her place in it was one I granted rather than one she seized.

I told her where the groceries went.

And she put them there, exactly where I said, and nowhere else.

It is a strange thing to be moved to the edge of tears by a question about groceries.