“You didn’t have to understand every part of what I felt to tell me you were alive,” I said.

“No.”

“Don’t make that choice again.”

“I won’t.”

I had wanted those words for years.

I did not yet know how to trust them.

That evening, we contacted the investigator associated with the missing-person report.

I used the details I had kept rather than treating an unexpected telephone number as proof of police authority.