When I asked whether the record proved he had tampered with a drink, she said no.

When I asked whether it distinguished my movements from his, she said it did, in the periods they could document.

That was less than the certainty I wanted and more than I had possessed when he told Owen I was spiraling.

I was afraid the review would see two parents and trust neither.

Dana said the reason to keep the records was to avoid treating us as interchangeable accounts simply because we were married.

She showed me the documented periods, not a conclusion about the whole marriage.