My phone started buzzing before I reached the end of the neighborhood.

Gideon.

I let the first call ring out.

The second came less than a minute later, and after it kept on, I answered — and I have thought many times since about the first words out of my husband’s mouth, because they told me everything I needed to know about the man I had married.

He did not ask if Roger was all right.

He did not ask if our son was safe, or warm, or frightened.