Not accusingly.

It is worse than accusingly; it is neutrally.

You are asked whether you have ever had any involvement with child protective services in any state.

You are asked whether you have children of your own.

I do not.

I am thirty-eight and I do not, and there is a reason and it is mine and it took two rounds of a thing I am not going to write about, and I was asked about it, in a small room, twice, by two different people, and both times I answered and both times I sat in my car afterward for a while.

You go home and you look at your own hands.