A year after the gala, she went back to the Coastal Vision Benefit — in a simple navy dress, wearing no jewelry at all.

A reporter asked whether she regretted exposing her husband in front of so many people.

Isadora thought about it before she answered.

“I regret believing, for eight years, that being humble meant staying silent,” she said.

“Kindness does not require you to erase yourself.

And privacy does not give another person permission to rewrite your life.”