Without fail, regardless of the weather conditions, a 90-year-old husband embarks on his bicycle journey spanning over 10 kilometers to visit his wife in hospice. Each day, Peter Burkhardt mounts his bike, determined to see his beloved partner situated in Apeldoorn, The Netherlands. Unperturbed by chilly temperatures, he gladly dons a rain jacket when precipitation graces the air. In the rare instance of exceedingly congested traffic, he arranges for a taxi or relies on his sons to chauffeur him, ensuring his unwavering commitment to be by his wife’s side.
“I’ll always find a way to be with my wife,” Peter expressed, emphasizing his unwavering determination. When questioned about the reason behind his daily effort at the remarkable age of 90, he revealed that, after spending 63 years together in matrimony, their desire to be in each other’s presence remains unyielding. “I long to see and be with my wife,” he affirmed. Peter has been faithfully cycling to visit his wife for over seven years, as she receives specialized care for dementia associated with aging.
“It typically takes me about an hour, although during strong winds, it may extend a bit longer,” he explained. “But I intend to continue this routine. While I may not walk as much these days, cycling still suits me well. I must accept the situation as it is. I genuinely yearn to spend each day with her; thoughts of her occupy my mind incessantly. There was a time when I used to drive occasionally, but even then, I would alternate between driving and cycling.”
When asked if his wife is aware of his unwavering commitment and daily visits, he replied,
“No, not at all. It falls completely beyond her realm of awareness. However, upon my return, I occasionally witness her offering me a tender embrace,” he replied. Their son, Wouter Burkhardt, acknowledged that his father’s unwavering devotion serves as a source of strength for his mother. “I believe they keep each other alive through this,” their son remarked.
Peter disclosed that his love for his wife remains as profound as it has been throughout their 63 years together. “I yearn to see her, to hear her voice,” he expressed. “When I step into the nursing home, I can immediately locate her. She may have changed, but my love for her remains unaltered.”