In a world obsessed with youth and beauty, the idea of ​​aging gracefully is often overshadowed by harsh societal expectations and outdated beliefs about what women should look like as they age.
But what if what society considers “flaws” are actually the qualities that make us powerful? What if age, experience, and wisdom could be the new standards of beauty? Enter Cima, the 76-year-old fashion influencer, with her fearless take on status quo style.
When she posted a photo of herself in a sleeveless midi dress, she unwittingly set off a wave of controversy that exposed not only her personal self-confidence but also the wider issue of how we perceive women over 60 in fashion.
A mix of praise and criticism followed, which begs the question: Why do we continue to condemn women for aging naturally, when in fact this year should be celebrated?
Aging as a woman often carries with it a social stigma that makes us feel like our worth decreases as we age. This feeling is further compounded by the limited representation of older women in mainstream media, where aging is still seen as something to be hidden rather than celebrated.
But there is a positive change, with social media platforms like ‘Life in My 70s’ offering a refreshing perspective on aging. These platforms emphasize the grace, elegance, and confidence that come with aging, challenging traditional narratives.
Although society’s views on aging and beauty are evolving, there are still times when certain opinions need to be kept to yourself. Take, for example, CANA CIMA, the 76-year-old style influencer. She recently shared a photo where she wore a MIDI sleeveless dress paired with a sweater. Despite praise for their bold fashion choices, not all comments were kind.
“It’s not the first time this has happened, but it surprised me,” Candace said. “People still cling to outdated ideas about what older women should wear and that needs to change.” Cima, a proud grandmother of 11, confidently showed off her style in a sleeveless brown knit dress with a sweater on top.
While many followers admired her fashion sense, others criticized her choice and offered nonsensical opinions in the comments section. Some users claimed the tight dress was unflattering, while others thought it was inappropriate for her age. One comment said: “The sides and back of this dress don’t suit you. Celebrate everything else about your body, but maybe avoid this style.” Another user wrote: “It’s not flattering at all. I would never wear it myself. You’re too old to show that much skin.” There were even comments from other women in her age group telling her that fitted dresses were more suitable for younger individuals.
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Despite the negative comments, Cima remained unapproved. “Having wrinkles at 76 is perfectly fine and I’m not ashamed of them,” she replied. “Should I cover my face just because it has wrinkles?” She noted jokingly.
Cima started her fashion blog after noticing gaps in how older women were represented in the fashion world. “We need to change the way we think about aging. In today’s world, we don’t have to hold on to these outdated expectations,” she said. Rather than respond to critics, Cima chose to focus on her younger followers and offer them empowering advice. “Aging is an incredible way,” she said. “Everything you’ve learned in your life is now part of who you are. You are the wisest, so embrace it and be proud of it.”
Candace Cima’s unwavering confidence and determination to challenge outdated standards of aging is an inspiring example for women of all ages. By embracing her own way and sharing it with the world, she not only defies the restrictions placed on older women but encourages others to do the same. In a world that often tries to box women into certain expectations based on age, Cima reminds us that true beauty and style have no expiration date.
Aging is not something to hide from, but something to be celebrated, and the wisdom gained throughout life is a powerful asset. By transforming the coming-of-age story, women as a mission are ready for future generations fully, confidently, and unapologetically.