It started like any other match with the dating application – railing, maybe a little promising, but nothing to write home.
But then Aaron’s profile attracted me. The kind of guy who made you stop and make double education, wondered how he ended up in your matches. Wide shoulders, perfectly cropped beard, eyes that seemed to see directly through you – yes, it was a kind of guy who could easily make you believe in love at the first swing. But was it too good to be true?
Something looked about him … almost too perfect. And it wasn’t long before I was wondering if I was reading too much, or if perhaps, maybe it could be something real. But as the conversations continued, the red flags began to appear slowly, masked as thoughtful questions and seemingly real interest.
I can still imagine the exact moment when I matched Aaron. His face appeared on my screen with the friend “It’s a match!” Banner, and I was addicted.
Frankly, the beautiful-the shoulders, a well-groomed beard, and eyes like a warm honey that slowly spread over freshly baked bread. His profile radiated confidence and his bio was also quite solid: “I’m looking for something real. A lover of books, coffee and bad puns.”
A man who appreciates a good pun? Immediate bonus points.
But what really caught me was his news. Were considerate and engaging, not your usual “Hey, what is your day?” Small speech. Aaron actually remembered the details. He asked about the books I read, followed by random stories, and somehow transformed even the most common topics into a captivating conversation.
During the chat about the memories of childhood, I mentioned carelessly that my favorite story grew up beauty and animal.
Conclusion
As the conversation flowed, I couldn’t help myself, but I felt a feeling of building excitement. Aaron looked different. Original. The surface did not just say; Went deeper. And when I shared my favorite children’s story, his answer was not just polite – she was thought out and enthusiastic.
He told me how much he also loved the story, and in the end we plunged into an interview about how the topics of love, growth and understanding resonated with us.
At that time, I realized: It wasn’t just an occasional connection. It was real. And for the first time in a long time I thought I might have found someone who really understood me.