It is disturbing to hear about the distressing situation our reader is dealing with controlling her boyfriend. Feeling pressured to give him all her free time and facing criticism and destruction of her belongings are signs of a toxic and potentially dangerous relationship. The safety and well-being of our reader are paramount and it is crucial for her to take steps to protect her. Seeking support from loved ones and considering reporting the situation to the authorities are important steps she can take to ensure her safety and begin to move forward from this harmful situation.
In addition to being healthy, spending time alone together can deepen your connection. Unfortunately, our reader’s friend claims that she should devote all her free time to him.
Her presence is required even if all she does is watch videos. Her partner did something terrible that scared our reader because he was so jealous of her hobbies.
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We apologize for your predicament. We are here to support you and maybe help you with these suggestions.
Make a report to the police.
Your soon-to-be ex-boyfriend criticized you and destroyed your things. Although it may not seem like something to report, it is still better to report it to the police. Make sure you get a restraining order and take photos of your broken items. It won’t be long before your lover starts physically abusing you.
Break up with him.
It’s obvious that your significant other doesn’t care about the things they mean to you. Knowing that it causes pain, he can easily destroy them.
You shouldn’t ignore it because it’s a big red.
He asserts his dominance and forces you to live his life by destroying your hobbies. He won’t change, so break up with him and refuse to listen to his pleas to stay.
Take care of yourself.
It’s all about hurting you and has nothing to do with your hobbies. Because you don’t give him your full attention, he punishes you; this is a characteristic of a narcissist. It may end up causing an “accident” that causes you bodily harm.
Your guy has shown you enough harshness and hostility to make the situation extremely disturbing. Don’t argue with him and don’t believe his excuses. Try to sneak out safely before they find out. If not, he will stop at nothing to stop you.
Ask your loved ones or friends for help.
Make sure you leave with a family member or close friend who can keep an eye on you if you choose to. Better to move out and never see your guy again. Sharing a roof with him can have negative effects.
Don’t wait for the situation to get worse; instead, seek help as soon as possible.
Conflicts can arise from the use of social networks as well as from hobbies. In this article, our reader threw away his wife’s camera because she posted pictures of their baby on social media to get likes. Things got worse when she decided to record their daughter taking a bath.
It is upsetting to hear about the challenges you are facing with your friend’s behavior. It is clear that his actions are not only disrespectful, but also harmful to your well-being and autonomy. Taking steps to protect yourself, such as reporting to the police, breaking up with him, and seeking support from loved ones, are essential to your safety and mental health. Remember that you deserve to be in a relationship where your interests and hobbies are respected and where you feel safe and valued. Don’t hesitate to ask for help and support as you navigate this difficult situation.