After the birth of two children, our heroine managed the housework, secured a well-paid career, and regained an attractive figure.
Despite everything, her husband started cheating on her.
It was disturbing to hear his honest explanation of his actions.
She posted her story online.
I am a woman who is 37 years old. My husband and I (40 million) have been married for ten years.
We have two children together. My marriage has never had problems before. After the birth of my son, I went through a severe depressive episode.
Anyway, my life was not going in the right direction.
I had a low-paying job that was a dead end.
My husband had to put in more hours to provide for us, so I raised my son alone.
After the arrival of my daughter, I decided to change. My bad eating habits and diet have changed. I practice yoga and go to the gym every morning. I’m sleeping better now. Just a few edits really lifted my spirits. I will not be quickly frustrated or helpless.
In addition, I updated my resume and searched for a position that fits my needs. I am earning a decent income now.
People around me tell me I look amazing and give me compliments. I also lost a lot of weight. My husband is not as happy as I had hoped. He doesn’t like it when people praise me or when they do it in front of him.
Then I found out he had an affair with a waitress at a cafe. In some of the conversations she and her husband had, she referred to me as an old hag trying to blend in with the younger generation. She is only twenty-two. I am inconsolable. I believed that my husband would be happy. We never had a bigger private life. Seven months have passed since the beginning of this romance.
I still fulfill all my marital responsibilities, even though I now work more hours. I make him a work lunch, cook for him, and strike up a conversation. He said being with me was always intrusive when I asked him about it. Because most people notice me, he feels invisible.
And in a way, I’m to blame. Instead of seeing how he felt, I was absorbed in myself. Because he was stuck there five years ago, he feels insignificant. I don’t understand it. I never pressured him to do what I did. Regardless, I kept reassuring him that I loved him. Why is this happening?
I am currently divorcing him.
The good news is that I have a lot of free time. I found myself canceling half of my jobs. It’s such a relief, even though I know kids are messy. I realized that I was the one who cleaned up the mess, while my husband was responsible for half of it.
Last week I went to see Barbie at the cinema with my daughter and son. My friend, who is also a single mother of two, accompanied us. Wearing a cowboy outfit my boyfriend modeled after Margot Robbie made me feel amazing. Yes, we had a great time.
I’m still doing everything I can to stay afloat. Also, I don’t have any plans yet. I don’t feel the need to date now. I got some attention, but nothing remarkable.
In the comments, people showered the woman with love and encouragement.
He understands that you are too good for him and that is why this is happening. He tries to make himself feel better by dating a lady who doesn’t earn much so that he can feel superior to her. which he clearly felt for you before you loudly refuted him. © Reddit/mynamecouldbesam
I am so sorry that he is treating you and your family this way. When you can’t face your own garbage, it’s pretty easy to emotionally abuse everyone around you. Because change is hard (as you know) and admitting you are too lazy to change is even harder, he cheats and talks nonsense because he feels bad for not keeping up with you for the past five years. © Reddit/Laurenoviciiii
Congratulations on all of your wonderful life improvements! Your husband wanted a doormat and an emotional punching bag more than his wife. I’ve always taken care of my husband and myself and I’m currently trying to get back in shape because I’m sick of seeing pictures of me looking fat and my knees hurting. How does my husband feel about it? He actively supports me by making better meals for the two of us, accompanying me on night walks, and encouraging me along the way.
I also helped him completely redo his resume after an incident at his job a few years ago that thankfully didn’t happen but could have resulted in him needing a new one. Again the incident did not deter him; instead, he was grateful to have someone who loved him and could help him. And he thinks it’s great that his wife is so gorgeous that I get compliments when we’re out. Ending any relationship is difficult, but the most important thing is that you worked hard to get on the path to success. While your ex is stuck in a scrap and a dead end, you will have a beautiful life, take care of your children, and when the time comes, you will find a man who will adore you for who you are. © Reddit/ArmenApricot
I had a child with my first husband, from whom I am now divorced. The thought of my son growing up in a “broken home” saddened me and I remember telling a close friend. But I’ll never forget what she said, “Your home was more broken when you were with him.” While I’m very sorry you’re going through this, it sounds like you deserve someone who respects you and recognizes the things about you that make all these other people so upset. Sending you virtual hugs and hope you find happiness and balance during this challenging time. © Reddit/IcyConsideration4307
Divorce is usually difficult. For example, this man openly expressed his desire to divorce his beloved wife because of her fears of becoming a parent.
This story serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience it takes to rebuild life after betrayal and highlights the importance of self-worth and the courage to prioritize one’s own well-being. Despite her husband’s affair and attempts to undermine her self-improvement, the woman chose to focus on herself and her family. By adopting healthier habits, advancing her career, and taking care of her children, she not only gained self-confidence but also discovered her strength and independence. The decision to end the marriage was ultimately a testament to her self-respect and determination to live authentically.
The support of an online community further emphasizes that she is not alone in her experiences, while others validate her strength and reinforce the value of mutual respect and partnership. Her story resonates with people who have faced similar challenges and highlights the idea that true partnership involves mutual support and encouragement rather than jealousy or insecurity. As she continues to move forward, unencumbered by her husband’s negativity, she can focus on creating a positive environment for herself and her children, fostering a home built on respect, resilience, and growth.
Along the way, this woman reminds others that self-worth is not defined by a relationship, but by an individual’s commitment to their own growth and happiness. Her focus on personal goals and her decision to remain single until she feels ready to open up to new possibilities show the strength that comes from self-awareness and healing. This story is both a cautionary tale and a beacon of hope, showing that with determination and self-love, people can rebuild their lives and find fulfillment on their own terms.