I took out my phone.

I called my CFO and canceled the Boston acquisition — the largest deal of my career, the thing I had built my whole identity around never missing — in a single flat sentence, and I did not feel the loss of it at all.

Then I called my company’s legal and IT departments and instructed them to lock down and preserve every historic email, every server backup, every corporate mail log associated with my mother and with Raymond.

And then I flagged down the airport security officers near the gate and asked them, quietly, to escort my mother and my lawyer away from my family.