An Ambulance Took My Mother to the Hospital—When I Returned for Her Medical Folder, I Found My Mother-in-Law Moving Into Her Apartment
That possibility was exactly why nobody asked.
When people avoid asking because they suspect the answer will be no, they already understand the boundary.
They simply dislike it.
That realization changed how I hear phrases like:
I didn’t want to bother you.
I thought you wouldn’t mind.
We’re family.
It was only temporary.