Aunts who had not spoken to me in a decade, inviting me to brunch.

My father, sending long, frantic apologies that blamed the stress of the wedding.

My mother, begging.

I did not block a single number.

I want to be precise about why, because it matters.

Blocking them would have been an act of feeling — it would have said they still had the power to reach me, and that I had to defend against it.

So I opened my settings, and muted the thread, and slid the phone back into my clutch.