On the day an important ruling was issued, I sat in my car afterward with the windows rolled up and my hands resting on the wheel.

I had imagined I would feel triumphant.

Instead, I thought about how much Harper had grown since the day I carried her into the emergency department.

Her front tooth had come loose.

She’d learned to tie her shoelaces.

She had a friend who wanted to join a school orchestra.

The legal case mattered enormously, but it was only one part of the life that was unfolding while we waited.

That evening, I asked Harper what she wanted for dinner.