I did not wash Adrian’s mug for a very long time.

And when I finally did, standing at the sink with the water running warm over my hands, I wept in a way I had not wept even at the funeral — because the funeral had been about their deaths, and the mug was about their lives, and it is the loss of the ordinary living, in the end, that carves you the deepest.

Not the caskets.

The coffee cup.