Please be patient with each other.

Neither of you is as good at explaining feelings as you think.”

A breath of laughter escaped me, followed by tears.

He talked about my first day at school, when I had marched into the classroom with my backpack upside down and insisted the teacher was mistaken about which end was the top.

He congratulated me on whatever graduation I had managed, whether I had taken honors, needed extra time or changed my mind about school entirely.

“It’s not a contest,” he said on the tape.