Fuentes and I agreed and have not departed from: her father and her grandmother did something very bad to her when she was six, and they are in prison, and it was never anything she did, and she will be told all of it when she is older and she can ask any question she wants at any time and I will answer it honestly or tell her that I am waiting until she is bigger.

She asked me once, at seven, whether he was in prison because of her.

And I said: “No.

He’s in prison because of what he did.

Those are completely different and I am going to keep saying it until you’re bored of it.”

She said, “I’m already bored of it.”

Which Dr.

Fuentes says is exactly correct and exactly what we are aiming for and that I should keep going anyway.