“I’ve talked to my attorney.

I want to establish support appropriately and contribute to the boys’ future expenses.

I also want to discuss education savings, but I understand that money doesn’t entitle me to immediate access.”

“That needs to be handled through an agreement that protects them.

And any gifts should be about their needs, not making you feel less guilty.”

“I understand.”

I wasn’t entirely sure he did, but at least he was listening.

Before we left, he asked about the NICU.