It’s what you do over time, especially when nobody applauds.”

He looked up sharply, but I continued.

“The boys are seventeen.

They have examinations, friends, scholarship applications, and a life you know nothing about.

If they choose to see you, you will listen.

You will not buy their affection or make promises you can’t keep.”

Brian nodded, then hesitated.

“I don’t know where to begin.”