In the divorce I asked for none of their mansions and none of their cars.

I asked for one thing only: full and sole custody of Lily, and the complete removal of the Beaumont name from my daughter’s life.

I got it.

People were surprised I didn’t go after the money.

The Beaumonts had a great deal of it, and my lawyers told me I had grounds to take a real share, and everyone expected me to want it — to feel that after three years I had earned it, that it was owed.

But I looked at the Beaumont money and I felt only the way you feel about something that has been in a flood: I did not want it in my house, no matter how it was cleaned.