Meanwhile, Lily’s follow-up appointments continued.

A professional spoke with her as appropriate, using the practices needed for a child her age.

I supplied my account separately.

I did not tell Lily that Ruth needed her to say what Grandma did.

I did not turn visits to the hospital or clinic into rehearsals for a courtroom.

One afternoon she asked whether she had to talk about Evelyn.

“You can tell the people helping you how you’re feeling,” I said.