That is not the behavior of a victim.

That is the behavior of a soldier — a better one, in every way that counts, than I ever was.

I came home and made the call and signed the papers.

But the reason there was still a living woman for me to save, after five months of hell, is that my wife had already, entirely on her own, refused to die.

I did not save Chloe’s life.

She saved her own life, and held on, in the dark, until I could get home and take over the fight.