But I knew the decision needed to be thoughtful, not reactive.

I spoke with Mr.

Bennett, considered Liam’s age and wishes, and looked at options that would allow any contact to begin safely and predictably.

We would not spring a reunion on an eleven-year-old or treat his feelings as a reward for an adult’s compliance.

When I told Liam about the request, he stared at the floor.

“Do I have to see him?”