My Son Was Told to Keep a Secret So His Father Could Betray Us — I Made Sure He Never Had to Carry It Again
Because here is the thing I had decided, early and absolutely, and held to through the entire divorce: I had no intention, none, of severing the bond between my son and his father.
Whatever Solomon had done to me, he was still Theo’s dad, and Theo loved him, and a child’s love for his father is a sacred thing that I would not damage to punish a man who deserved punishing.
What I was fiercely, immovably determined to prevent was something narrower and more specific.
Theo would never again be used — never again be made an alibi, or a messenger, or a hostage, or a keeper of secrets.
He could love his father freely.