Nobody Was Present
She says it is because I would have said no the fourth time. That is what she said in the February of 2026, in a mediator’s office, when I asked her directly with a mediator present, which is the only setting in which she has ever answered a question of mine completely.
And I do not think that is true.
I think I would have said yes, with some noise about it being the last time, which I had said in 2019 and not meant.
Dr.
Ferraro’s answer is that asking me would have required her to be a person who needed something, and that my wife has not been able to be that person in front of me since about 2009, and that she would rather commit a felony than be seen to be short.
I find that one too flattering to me and too neat about her.