Ngozi Ferraro, who my daughter was seeing and who I started seeing in the June at my daughter’s suggestion, which is its own sentence, put it to me in the August.

She said: “Mr.

Ocaña, you have spent eight months looking for a charge that says she left her there.”

And I said yes.

And she said: “There isn’t one.

And what you actually want is not a charge.

You want somebody official to say it out loud with authority.

“And the only person who is ever going to do that is you, and you can do it any time you like, and you have been waiting eight months for a stranger in a suit to do it for you.”