Adultery matters for the divorce decree, but custody turns on the immediate safety and stability of the children.

Do you have financial records?”

“She runs the daily accounts while I’m deployed.

I only look at the main balances.”

“You need to pull every bank statement from the past six months,” Thomas said.

“Deployment fraud is common, but judges want to see a clear pattern of dissipation.

Look for luxury purchases, travel costs, or cash withdrawals that don’t fit her normal grocery habits.

If she’s spending marital assets on this visitor, we can file for an emergency financial freeze.”