She said: “I want them to have had a job first.

I want them to have been broke in a small ordinary way and got out of it themselves, because I was thirty-one before I found out what it does to you to have no money, and it nearly took me apart, and they are going to find out about it from a bad apartment and not from a boardroom.”

And they are not told until they are eighteen.

That one caused the only real argument we have had about money, because my position was that hiding it was itself a kind of lie and that this family has had enough documents nobody was shown.