We spoke for another twenty minutes, mostly about the children, whose names I had never used out loud before that conversation and did not use afterward.

At the end she said: “I don’t expect us to speak again.”

“No,” I said.

“I don’t think we will.”

“But I wanted it said out loud, by me, to you, once.”

We have not spoken since.

She sends a card at Christmas.

It says Evelyn and nothing else, and I keep them.