The counselor had prepared us for such moments, but the words still startled me.

Savannah chose a quiet Saturday to talk with them.

Lucas sat beside her on the rug, and I sat a few feet away.

Nobody delivered a grand explanation.

We used words their age could hold.

Savannah told them that families could be made in different ways, that Lucas was the dad who had helped care for them every day, and that Gabriel was also connected to their beginnings.

She explained that adults had made mistakes before they were born and that none of those mistakes belonged to the children.