One change, made in a single quiet phone call to a wedding planner who had asked no questions.

It was not a large thing.

It would not appear during the ceremony.

It was scheduled, in the run of show, for after — for the reception, for the moment when the formal part of the day was meant to be over and the celebration was meant to begin.

A moment when the whole room would be gathered, seated, attentive, and looking toward the head table.

I said my part of the ceremony.