Family counseling ran alongside all of it.

Ours was every second Thursday, both of us, for four months, and then monthly, and then as needed.

In the third joint session, Hannah described the laundry room to Dr.

Roshan in her own words, and I sat there with my hands flat on my knees and did not say anything, because I had been coached not to, and it was the hardest forty minutes of my life.

She said: “Pamela said Dad needed a normal family now.

She said I was making it harder for everybody because Mom died.”